About Ella
Unschool your mind. Lead with honesty. Educate for real life.
I'm Ella Rose Roussel a historian, home‑educating parent, and educator.
I help adults heal from school conditioning, lead with honest parenting, and give their children an education that prepares them for the real world, not just exams.
I write, teach, and build community for people who know that school didn’t tell the whole truth and are ready to do something different for themselves and their families.
I was told I’d always struggle
I’ve always loved history and writing, but as a child I struggled to read.
I was labelled dyslexic, put in the slow readers group, and told I’d always find it difficult to read and get good grades. The message was clear: I was not “academic”.
Everything shifted when my friend (now my husband) told me something radically simple:
I could read. The only thing really holding me back was what I believed about myself.
Fast forward, and I hold a degree in history. I spend my days reading dense academic books and papers I could never have imagined tackling as a kid.
The label was wrong. My belief was the prison.
That experience sits at the core of my work:
The stories we’re given about ourselves are not the truth.
They’re scripts. And they can be rewritten.
The day I realised authority can be wrong
My first experience of teaching was gentle: mentoring younger children in primary school through a school program.
My second experience changed how I saw school and the role of “teacher” forever.
In Year 8 (2006), in a mid‑level maths class, I was the only one to solve a particular equation correctly. The teacher marked me wrong. I was confused but convinced I was right, so I took the problem home and asked my dad, a carpenter who was good with numbers, to check it.
He looked at it and said,
“You’ve already solved it. Your teacher is wrong.”
I went back and told my teacher. Before long, he was sending students to me for feedback on their work and extra explanations when they didn’t understand. I became the go‑to person. Some students stopped going to the teacher all together, coming straight to me instead.
This went on for weeks, then months.
Students started going home with “well done” and smiley faces in their books, written by a peer, not a teacher. Parents began to ask questions. Eventually, I lost my unofficial position. So did the teacher.
I was moved into the top‑level maths group mid‑term and, honestly, I didn’t thrive there. I’d missed the foundations. But back in my old class, many of the kids I’d helped did well. Some thanked me personally.
That experience cracked something open in me:
- Authority can be wrong.
- Titles don’t guarantee truth.
- Young people are far more capable of leading and teaching than systems usually allow.
“Not university material” – and then a degree with four kids
Later in high school, after moving from the UK to Australia, teachers advised me not to sit TEE, the major exams at the end of Year 12. They didn’t believe I would pass.
I was “not university material”.
Looking back now, it’s almost funny, because I did go on to higher education.
I started with a TAFE certificate, spent some time working, and then enrolled at university. I did well in my studies, but paused my degree to grow my family.
Ten years later, living on an off‑grid farm with four children, I returned to university and finished my history degree with marks high enough to move into honours.
I’m now completing my honours with a focus on educational history, including elite influences in the rise of industrial schooling and how those decisions still ripple through our lives and classrooms today.
The lesson was clear:
No institution, exam, or teacher gets to decide your potential.
They can guess. They can label. But they do not get the final word.
What all of this taught me
Out of these experiences, a handful of core truths emerged. They shape everything I write and teach:
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Belief is a box.
What you believe you are capable of quietly sets the limits of your life. -
Identity directs your path.
The roles and labels you accept (“not academic”, “difficult”, “lazy”, “too much”) quietly dictate your choices. -
You hold more power than you were told.
You have control over your identity and success. -
Authority is not the same as truth.
No teacher, no institution can decide your worth unless you allow them to. -
Opinions are not destiny.
People will always voice their opinions, but see them for what they are. Opinions. -
It’s never too late.
It is never too late to change your story, your education, your family culture, or your contribution to the world. You can change the world no matter who you are, where you have come from, or what you have so far achieved. There is always more you can do, it's never too late.
These aren’t just nice ideas to me. They’re the ground I stand on when I help you unschool your mind, lead your family differently, and educate your children for real life.
How I help today
Today, my work sits at the intersection of educational history, mindset, parenting, and home education. I:
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Write books that walk you through a clear journey:
- Why You Hated School
Helps you understand and heal from what school did to you. - Honest Parenting
Shows you how to build a strong, truthful family culture and lead with humble authority. - How To Educate Your Kids
Shares the Educational Heart method for educating your children for real life.
- Why You Hated School
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Run a live 5‑day workshop,
Unschool Your Mind: 5 Days To Break Free From School Conditioning,
where we take the ideas off the page and do the deeper inner work together. -
Lead Educational Heart and EDH Social,
a community for home‑educating and freedom‑minded families who want support, structure, and companionship as they raise thriving, self‑directed children.
Everything I create is designed to do one of three things:
Help you heal.
Help you lead.
Help you educate.
Where to go from here
If any part of my story sounds like yours, here are a few simple ways to begin:
Start with my book series
If you want to heal from school, change how you parent, or rethink your child’s education, start with the book that matches where you are.
Join the Unschool Your Mind workshop
f you’re ready to do the deeper inner work around school conditioning, the 5‑day live workshop is your next step.
Visit Educational Heart & EDH Social
If you’re already on the path of home education or unschooling and want community, resources, and support, this is where we walk together.
You’re not broken. You were schooled. And that story can be rewritten.
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